Welcome to Singlehood! Joyce Gituro's Candid Advice to Sarah Kabu Sparks Buzz

Joyce Gituro

Life after love? Former radio host and single mom Joyce Gituro has a message for Sarah Mtalii—and she didn’t hold back. In a no-nonsense Instagram video, Joyce gave Sarah a crash course in surviving singlehood, and let’s just say, it’s not for the faint of heart.

The communication strategist, clearly speaking from experience, offered everything from practical advice to heartfelt encouragement, even touching on the possibility of Sarah reconciling with her estranged husband, Simon Kabu.

Here’s everything Joyce dished out—plus why her words are causing a stir online.

“Welcome to This Side”—The Realities of Single Life

With a slight chuckle, Joyce kicked things off with a blunt greeting:

“Hey Sarah Kabu, welcome to this other side.”

Drawing from her years as a single mom, Joyce pulled no punches. She warned Sarah that life as a single woman isn’t always rosy:

“You will be judged. You will actually be abused.”

Sarah Kabu

But that was just the beginning. Joyce’s survival tips included some hard-hitting truths:

Get to know your mechanic. “They’ll be the ones taking your car for servicing.”

Become handy around the house. “Start learning how to change bulbs.”

Brace yourself—but find peace. “Know your kids will also be judged, but you will have a lot of peace.”

For Joyce, the key to thriving lies in independence and hard work—a message she delivered candidly yet encouragingly.

“Don’t Fight It”—Is Reconciliation Still on the Table?

In a surprising twist, Joyce encouraged Sarah to stay open to reconciliation with Simon Kabu, the father of her children:

“If one day you decide you want to go back to him, please do. There’s nothing wrong with working things out.”

However, she was quick to advise Sarah to focus on herself in the meantime:

“Stop discussing your ex. Focus on your job, your business, and improving yourself.”

It was a mix of tough love and genuine support—a balance Joyce has seemingly mastered.

Sarah’s Future Plans: From Healing to Weddings in Ibiza

Sarah Mtalii, on the other hand, appears to have her eyes set on adventure and healing. During a recent interview, the businesswoman hinted at embracing her independence but made one thing clear: she still dreams of marriage.

“Now that I’m single, I want to travel with my clients more… I haven’t thought of meeting someone yet. I need to heal. But I still want to be married again.”

Adding a touch of humor, Sarah confessed:

“I was raised to be a wife; I don’t know how to survive in the streets.”

Whether it’s a trip to Ibiza or a second shot at love, Sarah seems determined to take control of her future.

Fans React: Is Joyce Speaking Truth or Throwing Shade?

Joyce’s unfiltered advice sparked a flurry of reactions online. While some praised her for “keeping it real,” others accused her of being too harsh.

One fan commented: “This is the advice no one wants to hear, but everyone needs.”

Another added: “She didn’t have to air it like this—some things are better said privately.”

However, Joyce seemed unfazed, proudly showing off her customized “single lifestyle” T-shirt at the end of her video.