Single Mom Struggles: Tatiana Karanja Opens Up About the Pain Behind the Smiles

Tatiana Karanja aka Mama Olivek

Tatiana Karanja, fondly known as Mama Olive on social media, is peeling back the curtain on the reality of her life as a single mom to three daughters, all under 10 years old. While her carefully curated Instagram feed might suggest she has it all together, Tatiana is here to let everyone know—parenting solo is no walk in the park.

“Motherhood Isn’t Easy—Let’s Get Real”

The award-winning photographer, digital content creator, and budding events hostess recently shared a tearful and heartfelt post with her followers, addressing the misconception that she’s breezing through life as a mom.

"‘You make motherhood look so easy,’ is one of the comments I get most," she began in her emotional caption. "And while I absolutely adore being a mom, let’s get real—motherhood is really hard! And I’m feeling it amplified, well a lot, as a single mom."

Tatiana’s vulnerability struck a chord with her audience, especially as she revealed that there are days she feels completely overwhelmed, carrying the weight of parenting on her own.

“Some Days Feel Like the Weight of the World”

For Tatiana, the challenges of raising three young children without a partner are magnified by the relentless demands of parenthood. She admitted:

"Parenting is a tough journey for everyone, and it can be even more challenging when you’re doing it on your own. Some days, it feels like I’m carrying the weight of the world on my shoulders. I want to remind all of you out there to give yourselves grace. It’s okay to have tough days; you’re not alone in feeling overwhelmed."

Showing the Vulnerable Side

Acknowledging that social media often showcases only the highlights of people’s lives, Tatiana confessed that she hasn’t been as open about her struggles in recent times.

"I’ve always aimed to be real about my experiences, but I realize I haven’t shared as many vulnerable moments lately. Many of my days include breakdowns and challenges that don’t always make the highlight reel," she explained.

She also expressed her gratitude for the supportive community she’s built over the years, crediting her followers for helping her push through the hardest moments.

Building a Supportive Space for Moms

Tatiana revealed that she founded Motherhood Unplugged to address the lack of support many moms face. The initiative creates a safe space for mothers to share their struggles and connect over their shared realities.

"It’s hard to put into words what we go through, especially to those who haven’t experienced it. To all the moms out there: you are valued, you are seen, you are heard, and your struggles are valid. Everything you’re thinking and feeling is absolutely legitimate. We’re in this together!"

Her words are a powerful reminder that it’s okay to not have it all figured out—and that there’s strength in vulnerability.

Fans React

Tatiana’s candid post has resonated with her followers, with many moms flooding the comment section to share their own experiences and gratitude for her honesty.

While she continues to juggle her many roles, one thing is clear: Mama Olive’s openness is inspiring countless moms to embrace their imperfections and find solace in shared struggles.