Jackie Matubia Gets Candid: Life After Love, Celibacy, and Lessons in Co-Parenting

Jackie Matubia

Jackie Matubia, the award-winning actress and mother of two, isn’t holding back when it comes to her life, love, and healing journey. 

In a no-holds-barred interview with Dr. Ofweneke, Jackie opened up about her life after splitting from her second baby daddy, Blessing Lungaho. And let’s just say, the revelations were explosive.

Celibacy for Three Years? Yes, She Did It

In the wake of her breakup with Blessing, Jackie made a bold decision: no dating, no entanglements, nothing. For nearly three years, she stayed celibate—a decision she says was crucial for her mental health and to focus on her children.

"I stayed celibate for almost three years now. I did not want anything," Jackie revealed.

The decision wasn’t just about her—it was about creating a stable environment for her kids and taking the time to heal emotionally.

‘You Can’t Force a Man to Stay’

Jackie didn’t shy away from discussing her failed relationships. Reflecting on her split with Blessing, she revealed that she fought hard for him to remain an active presence in their daughter’s life—but in the end, she realized she couldn’t force it.

"When I told the dad to go, he left," she admitted. "I fought — God knows I fought... But you can’t force a man. You cannot, you cannot."

Her advice for young women is clear and unapologetic: "For girls who think getting pregnant will keep a man, just know you’ll end up raising that child alone."

A Tale of Two Baby Daddies

Jackie’s story isn’t just about heartbreak—it’s also about resilience. She co-parents peacefully with her first baby daddy, and their strong bond sets a positive example for her daughter.

"I see the impact of having an involved father, like with my other daughter’s dad. We are very good friends," she said. "When you look past the fighting, a man who truly loves and is there for his child means everything to me, regardless of what happened between us."

Her experiences have taught her the importance of healthy co-parenting and putting her children’s well-being first.

The Bigger Picture

Jackie’s journey from heartbreak to healing is a testament to her strength. By choosing self-growth and focusing on her kids, she’s inspiring women everywhere to prioritize their own happiness and mental health.

As for her next steps? Jackie remains tight-lipped about her romantic future but makes one thing clear—she’s not settling for less than she deserves.